You can talk a lot about the success, the embodiment of the ideals and dreams, the search for yourself and self-realization, or you can just talk with the person who embodied all this in his life. Pro-rector, Ph.D. in Philosophy, teacher, mother of three children, noble lady Iryna Yatsyk is a wonderful interlocutor who is ready to share thoughts, plans and experience, which will definitely be interesting for readers of Zhytomyr.Travel
“People should see examples … How is it Tolstoy that every happy family is happy alike? Our family is not always understood. I went to work for Yarchik in six weeks, and for Lyubchik – in four weeks. First for a couple of hours, before lunch or after. I was told in my eyes that I am a cuckoo mother who left the children that they can not leave children to a nanny. But we have a clear schedule, a wonderful nanny and an eagerness to be happy at all times! By the way, Jacyk is an example of a true father, caring and loving. This is the man who shows what the father should be … And I’m incredibly thankful for him! ”
“We studied with Sergey together in one group, worked together, relaxed together, studied together. It seems to me that we were so acquainted with each other that there was no reason to wonder ”
“At the institute we had a very friendly group. We are still remembering teachers, constantly asking who and where in life settled ”
“I crossed out by love, it seemed to me that it would be better to be in poverty, but in sincerity. Continuing to work, two or three jobs, training, tutoring – this was the norm. I believe that now a generation of those who live in rented apartments and earn, in addition to the main, on paper books for development (Laughs). And the “princes on white horses” have other requirements: for them you will remain a “doll”
“We are both philosophers. Jacyk for life, I’m teaching. Here’s even our dissertation: Sergei’s dissertation completely denies my. There was such a funny story. I defended myself in Kiev, at the university. Taras Shevchenko in 2009, and he – in Dnipropetrovsk in 2012. And he is protected by an old professor and says: “There is such a researcher Jacyk in Kiev, and he proves completely opposite categories.” Sergey answers: “Yes, I read the works of this scientist, and I do not agree with him.” The fact that the mysterious “researcher Jacyk” – his wife, Sergey did not say. Well, those who knew it – just fell out of laughter ”
“We argue only on two topics: the upbringing of children (tougher / softer) and philosophical doctrine (worth / not worth it). In the postgraduate study, through a single philosophical category, the religious philosopher Marcel was so quarreled that he did not even speak two weeks “(Laughs)
“Although it is believed that the scientific sphere in the high school is mostly female, but I did not feel it. Men in science are much easier: the husband stands for mother, grandmother, wife, who give the opportunity to work. There are no such female scientists. I, for example, I wrote and wrote my articles at night when I would process all my homework. I have no other time, because during the day I have a job, a social activity, and in the morning and in the evening – children. But honestly, for me it’s such an intimate process. It’s like to hear yourself. You start to search for materials, open up, you will know for yourself. Investigating the thoughts of specialists and finding in them reflections of your own thoughts or beliefs: “Oh, and I thought so.” That is, this process of writing is working with you, talking with yourself ”
“Is it necessary to defend a dissertation in Ukraine? Definitely that way. You are completely different in your perception. Although sometimes I am ashamed to say that I am a Ph.D. in Philosophy (Laughs). There are only four specialists in Ukraine in my existential realm, and it’s nice when someone conveys a congratulatory message from a conference or council, knowing only my article or dissertation”
“I am currently working on a doctoral dissertation on public administration. The direction I chose and I consider relevant and interesting to study is the quality of education and youth policy”
“Everywhere I publish and express, I write my post as a” pro-rector. ” They correct me, they say “pro-rector”. But I explain: “No, now in modern Ukraine it is about the candidate, the docent, the pro-rector”
“I am happy that women now have more opportunities, and there are many clever, ambitious and decent women who can show themselves. But a strong woman needs a strong man. And here it is necessary to help men. Gender equality is first and foremost equality. I support the movement “Father has the right”. And equality is precisely because you are equal with your husband, in work, in relationships, in science. And in the family each has its own functions and role, the main thing is not to forget, for which reason it is done”
“Ukrainian society is far from gender equality. When my husband was looking for work on television, I read in the requirements that men can work for 50 years as TV presidents, and women – up to 35. And if a woman is charismatic, smart, good? It is strange when this is determined, is not it? ”
“I now see my husband more often in the public space. About some of his projects I learn from facebook. For example, his affinity to the processes of electoral reform, about his interview. And it’s very good that at home we do not talk about those issues. I say to him: “I will always support you as a person, but how you position yourself in the community is your business.” Of course, I do not like a lot of things or words, but I appreciate the fact that we are not bored. Perhaps that is the secret of a happy marital life: do not look for reasons for a quarrel “(Laughs)
“I disagree with the stereotyped idea that” Dad should earn, and Mom is good. ” Women also need to learn, to make a career on a par with men. When, in different circumstances, a woman is left alone, and she has neither education nor profession? I have a friend who was 40 years old without a husband who has provided all his life. Now it does not know where to go and what to do – it’s full of despair. I told her, “Well, there is nothing terrible. You are going to study, looking for work! Children need a successful mother”
“I am from a patriarchal family: the parent’s word was more important, decisions were often not discussed. I have two older brothers, Kolya is 19 years older, and Oleg is 15 years older. Parents are together for 55 years”
“Gender, gender equality in no way interfere with traditional family values. And what tradition do we have? What are the values? What roles do you have? What is a family? Everyone has their own concept of family, this is not standard, and each family has issues that they decide in their own way. The main thing – not look at each other, but in one direction. Here in our family, for example, it is planned to give a maximum to children. Do not create greenhouse conditions, but help to be realized. All we can do is invest in the education of Ivana and the guys, even on their own trips. Paris is the same, in which you kedah … Our parents tried to provide us at the minimum level: ate, slept, and lived. And they thought that it was theirs such a function. And I wanted to travel, draw new skills. Therefore, I try to hear Ivan, although it’s difficult, it’s a job – to hear a child. I study”
“Despite all skeptical statements, I will say: in Ukraine, a person can, without money and rich parents, make himself. And we are the example of that”
“For the implementation of my own business project I took a loan of 50 000 hryvnia. Under the entrepreneurship system, he found a loan that fit, and created a creative education center for teens “Just”. Already gone to zero, and even a month earlier than the business plan was foreseen. This was for me another step in terms of self-esteem: “I was able to do this, I did.” Although I’m not a business person”
“Everything starts with the family. The family is the basis. Education can be adjusted, teachers can give knowledge, but the children leave the family. And teachers have an educational function, and this profession, in my opinion, is one of the hardest. Teacher should be a model! This is now the graduation of the profession, but I am sure that the teacher must always be a moral model for the child, the person who will say “thank you” for believing, or “thank you for not believing” after 20 years.
“In higher education is difficult now, a teacher at school has a higher salary than an associate professor. And the volume of work somewhere in the teacher is greater, because the semester, the exam, it is necessary to give the quality of knowledge such that the student can use this knowledge in practical work”
“The main thing in leadership is to see the perspective of collective work. You yourself will get faster, but you will hold on to the group more firmly when you reach the goal”
“I think it’s hard to work with me. Passed the test recently, it turned out that 95% “multitasking”, that is, at the same time I can keep up and control a few large projects. And it seems that everyone knows this, so I demand a quick understanding”
“University is a complex system structure, which in our information age should either be updated or disappeared. And updating is possible only through the creation in the university environment of cultural centers. The university should become a coworking, a space of creativity, where the boundary between a student and a professor is only in practical knowledge and age. The theory of “googling”, and requiring handwriting notes on the exam – is humiliation”
“People need to talk like you last seen. For tomorrow may not be, but the memory of the quarrel or unproved for life will remain in memory ”
“When I listen to toast at the table, I never look at the birthday, and I study the reaction to his friends toast. Usually, in such situations, the attitude towards the “culprit” and the one who wants good “is revealed”
“The secret of happiness in our thoughts. You think so, and you live. I believe that we create our own reality. When Lyubomyrek was born, I was unemployed. It was a difficult time for our family, because birth was complicated, a lot of money for medicine was needed … But the birth of a third child “cleaned” our environment. Around was a family, kummy, friends, whom I am grateful for! People who in turn brought a soup to the hospital, diapers and clothes for small ones. Man is not measured by status, rank and diploma. Only acts reveal a person and its essence”
“I really want to have economic support for young families. We do not have it. And statistics stubbornly argue that most families break up because of economic turmoil. A young family can not even take a home loan when she does not first installment Where’s his brothers? In the same Poland everything is clear: the interest-free rate for housing for a family. And the notion of “family” is very much respected there, and then we can talk about true family values, happiness to be together, about tolerance. When you are sure that tomorrow you will buy something to eat, pay for an apartment, then more attention will be given to children. We have a lot of kum and friends in Europe, Canada, America, who left the young and do not want to return. And they do not understand why we are staying in Zhytomyr. And though thoughts about going abroad were, but I believe that while we are here”
Translated by Aliona Matushevich
